A sex bench is a type of BDSM tool or furniture that can serve many purposes for many people.
Sex benches are most widely used for kink enthusiasts, but they can also be super helpful for anyone who is physically impaired and struggles with comfort during sex in bed, or even for people who need a little extra help to get into the positions that optimize their pleasure.
This is why not all sex benches are made the same, and some of them come with various add-ons, including restraints, headrests, padding that supports the joints during doggy style, and even built-in dildos for hands-free pleasure.
But before you jump to my list of the ten best spanking benches I’ve reviewed below, let’s quickly go over something very important.
Spanking sex benches are, as I said, mostly used for various BDSM activities, many of which can be quite intense and not suitable for beginners.
And I know this might sound like the most boring thing you’ve ever read, but I feel like it’s my responsibility to mention that you should 1. always play with someone you trust, and 2. always have a safe word or a safe signal (or both) before starting your play.
And with all that being said, let’s jump to my recommendations:
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Etsy – Plus-Size Angle Spanking Bench – $360
The Plus-Size Angle Spanking Bench is a heavy-duty piece of furniture specifically built with the big submissives in mind.
The bench is made of 2×4 pine wood and is guaranteed to hold up to 400 lbs (180 kg). Additionally, all the joints are bolted and screwed together to ensure extra safety.
The knee rest has been reengineered for greater stability and can endure the roughest and longest of plays. They can be mounted parallel to each other or with a 10-degree angle pushing the legs to spread apart.
This allows plenty of room for you to stand between your partner’s legs and enjoy the great angle for penetration.
Master Series – Obedience Extreme Sex Bench – $500
The Master Series Obedience Extreme Sex Bench is responsible for making the sales of sex benches skyrocket after paparazzi shared photos showing then couple Cara Delevigne Ashley Benson carrying a sex bench with adjustable restraints into their home in West Hollywood.
This heavy-duty piece of sex furniture is made of sturdy steel and has a comfortable padding for the body, legs, arms, and head so that you can play vigorously for hours without your partner experiencing any major discomfort (apart from the one you purposely cause them.)
The ergonomically shaped bench will leave the submissive partner exposed for spankings, deep penetration, or anything else you might think of.
The U-shaped headrest is specifically designed to not muffle any moans and squeals as you play.
Lastly, you can play without the straps or use them to fully restrain your partner. The straps are adjustable and have quick-release buckles for safety.
Extreme Restraints – The Punishing Bench – $675
The Punishing Bench is specifically designed for torture and pleasure while in a doggy position.
It has a raised bar in the middle that the submissive partner would have to bend over and expose their body to the many spankings that are about to come their way.
To ensure that they don’t move, use the nylon straps on the leather pads to keep that part of their body strapped to the bench as well.
BDSM Architecture – Metal Spanking Bench – $650
The Metal Spanking Bench is a piece of BDSM furniture with the classic design of a picnic bench, only more comfortable and better suited for more customized pleasures.
Made from metal that makes it incredibly durable and stable, the spanking bench also has a number of metal rings where you can hook up restraints for the wrists, ankles, and even the neck for the lucky submissive who’s about to be tied down to this piece of art.
Additionally, soft leather padded parts allow for comfortable kneeling and full-body support for a comfortable play that can easily last for hours on end.
The Metal Spanking Bench is excellent for couples or a group play if this is something you are lucky enough to experience.
BDSM Architecture – Wooden Spanking Bench – $690
The Wooden Spanking Bench by BDSM Architecture is another one of their sex furniture pieces with the classic design of a picnic bench, only more comfortable and better suited for more customized pleasures.
Made from hardwood, this spanking bench is incredibly durable and stable and also has a number of metal rings where you can hook up restraints for the wrists, ankles, and even the neck for the lucky submissive who’s about to be tied down to this glorious piece of art.
Additionally, soft leather padded parts allow for comfortable kneeling and full-body support for a comfortable play that can easily last for hours on end.
The Wooden Spanking Bench is excellent for couples or even a group play if that’s something you are into.
Extreme Restraints – The Extreme Punishment Sex Bench – $795
The Extreme Punishment Bench is a multi-purpose bondage furniture piece designed to let you have plenty of fun with your submissive partner without having to obtain too many separate products.
This bench truly has it all and lets you act out on all the wild and creative fantasies that have been running through your mind.
As a start, you can place your partner over the bench, lock them in with the fully adjustable full-body restraints and powder-coated steel cuffs, and have them receive any and all things that you have prepared for them.
The bench also includes a steel neck collar to keep your partner’s head firmly in place, a rod that you can use manually to pound a dildo into your partner, and an enema bag holder if you want to create an exquisite medical scene.
Combine that with any impact toys like paddles, whips, and floggers, and you have a complete bondage experience.
Enfettered – Spanking Horse – $850
The Enfettered Spanking Horse will definitely bring you back to those high school days of pommel horse jumping during a physical education class, but this time, it will be an experience with a kinky twist to it.
The Spanking Horse is made entirely of layered sheet steel, which sets a new standard characterized by simple elegance and class.
Additionally, the tightly padded support surfaces which are available in different colors ensure maximum comfort and stability, while a rich mix of eyelets offer all sorts of attachment options for leather cuffs.
Lastly, what I personally appreciate most is that all sex furniture is hand-made by Enfettered, and the production time usually lasts six to eight weeks.
I appreciate this because I like knowing that my special item was made for me.
UABDSM – Spanking Bench – $1,185
The UABDSM Spanking Bench is one of the most comfortable and convenient options on the list.
Made of natural wood and environmental leather, the Spanking Bench looks classy, elegant and can be used for whatever position you feel like putting your submissive in.
The Spanking Bench also comes with various chains and leather restraints for the wrists and ankles. You will also receive a leather flogger, which your submissive will have to learn how to appreciate.
Nevertheless, it’s super fun and versatile, and it folds into a box for easy storage. However, it’s quite pricey, so you do need to save up a coin before investing in this intimidating beast.
Enfettered – Bondage Bench – $1900
The Enfettered Spanking Bench is multi-functional sex furniture that comes with multiple attachment points where you can hook up various restraints to keep your submissive partner firmly in place.
The bench has a flat wide chest platform for comfort and a forward bending position, and a shin that’s angled wide to accommodate various leg positions, but by far, the most interesting part is the attached fucking machine or something that looks more like a drill where you can attach a dildo and enjoy watching your sub writhe in orgasmic pleasure.
This fetish bench has functionality with beauty in mind alongside immense strength and robust build, exquisite upholstery, and an elegant choice of straps.
Lastly, what I personally appreciate most is that all sex furniture is hand-made by Enfettered, and the production time usually lasts eight to ten weeks.
I appreciate this because I like knowing that my special item was made for me.
Fetish Furniture – Custom Made Spanking Benches – $500+
Fetish Furniture is a US-based company that exclusively handcrafts sex furniture such as spanking benches, pedestals, spreaders, etc.
They use the finest materials to make their erotic furniture a durable and beautiful piece of art that also serves as a way to indulge in new and sensual experiences.
Additionally, alongside function, they also aim for maximum convenience, which is why their spanking benches are foldable and portable, making them a perfect addition to new adventures.
Lastly, their spanking benches are soft and comfortable and can be fully customized for a more personalized experience.
