10 Discreet Sex Toys To Wear In Public (Without Anyone Knowing)

Using a sex toy in public is something not many people have the confidence to do.

There are always important questions popping up in your head, such as:

“What if someone knows? What if someone hears me?”

The thought of climaxing right there while in a public area and having to keep quiet may be a bit too much for some people, however, if you consider yourself to be a thrill-seeker, using discreet sex toys in public might be right up your alley.

This way, you can satisfy your fantasies of being sexual in new and interesting places without being charged with public indecency.

In this guide, I am sharing with you the 10 inconspicuous sex toys made for public use, and they will fall into these 3 main categories:

  • Three vaginal sex toys
  • Three anal sex toys.
  • Four vibrating panties.

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What is the Thrill of Wearing Sex Toys In Public?

Isn’t there something exciting about knowing you have something under your belt that can make you explode in a full-blown orgasm at any given moment, yet the people around you have no clue?

Roaming around the supermarket is no longer a chore if you are holding in a moan. It becomes something of sweet torture you don’t to put an end to.

The same goes for sitting in a restaurant while catching up with friends. Can you resist the urge to just let go while someone is talking to you?

There is something about having an orgasm in public that is irresistible to thrill-seekers.

If you are in a relationship and looking to increase both pleasure and intimacy while experiencing a new kind of fun, experimenting with a sex toy in public may be just the thing for you.

Using pleasure toys with your partner shows that you are open to exploration and adventure.

Letting your partner control your discreet toy through an app such as the Lovense Remote app while in public will definitely be a fun experience for both of you.

The Best Vaginal Sex Toys For Public Use

Lovense Lush 3 – $99

Lovense Lush 3

This super-quiet G-spot stimulator can be controlled via an app from anywhere in the world and worn anywhere you could use a little excitement.

The best part of using the Lush 2? You have your own little secret while having more fun than everyone else in the room.

Unlike other vibrating panties that happen to be quite “bulgy”, the Lush 2 is very much discreet and comfortable toy to wear around with you.

It slips in easily and you can easily hide the antenna if you are wearing a pair of jeans.

If this little guy caught your attention, check out my full review on all you need to know before buying it here.

We-Vibe Sync – $210

We-Vibe Sync

The Sync is made to clamp onto a woman’s pubic bone and provide simultaneous vibrations to the clitoris and G-spot.

It is made with body-safe silicone to prevent triggering any allergic reactions and it is free from phthalates, BPA, and latex.

It’s both a discreet wearable delight that can be controlled with the little remote it comes with or a Bluetooth via the We-Connect app that can be controlled from any distance through the internet.

Although the g-spot portion doesn’t press with much noticeable impact, when the vibrations are going, there’s a lot to love about this little guy.

The vibrations are deep, rumbly, and strong and you can actually choose the intensity through the We-Connect app that lets you select from a variety of patterns.

We-Vibe Jive – $119

We-Vibe Jive

Being able to control your partner while in public or pretty much anywhere, really, is a popular fantasy.

We-Vibe’s Jive remote-controlled G-spot vibe was created with this thought in mind.

It’s a discreet wearable delight that can be controlled via the We-Connect app and can be controlled from any distance through the internet.

The app lets you create your own patterns of powerful vibrations that are concentrated in the insertable section.

The Best Anal Butt Plugs For Public Use

Lovense Hush 2 – $99

Lovense Hush 2

Lovense Hush is an ideal toy for individuals and couples who are into anal play.

It’s made from 100% silicone and it has a lot of smart features that make it way less intimidating than some of the other butt plugs on the market.

The silicone exterior provides enough give to prevent any feeling of forcing, while the entire unit is firm to keep things moving at a comfortable pace.

The Hush can connect to Bluetooth and can also be used with the Lovense app which is compatible with both iPhones and Androids.

On the other hand, if you are not so tech-savvy, you don’t have to worry. You can use Hush without downloading the app and still enjoy everything it has to offer.

Additionally, make sure you read my detailed review on this butt plug from the future here.

b-Vibe Snug Plug – $45

b-Vibe Snug Plug

Wearing a butt plug while out and about in public is now made simple with b-Vibe’s Snug Plug that is specially designed for comfort and that much-desired feeling of fullness.

Made out of smooth, seamless silicone, the Snug Plug features a thin, flexible neck for easy long-term wear.

It has a sleek anchor base that fits comfortably between the butt cheeks.

And the best part is – it comes in 5 different sizes and weight options. You can also choose between the 4 different colors available.

This butt-plug truly offers something for everyone!

Njoy Pure Plug Stainless Steel Butt Plug – $59

Njoy Pure Plug Stainless Steel Butt Plug

Designed to be equally fun for hot bedroom play or to wear while out and about for that much needed daily stimulation, the Njoy Pure Plug 2.0 Stainless Steel Butt Plugs have a large head for that good stretch of penetration and a small, tapered stem for good retention and long-term comfort.

The artful curve offers a welcome tease and the silky-smooth, weighty steel adds a sense of fullness to remind you of just how sensitive you really are back there.

The Best Vibrating Panties For Public Use

If you want just external clit stimulation, then a panty vibe is definitely what you need. Noise levels are usually louder with external vibes, so test beforehand and use it in a crowded area if you want to disguise the volume.

Take a look at these fancy toys:

Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Panty Vibrator – $89.99

Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Panty Vibrator;

Desire is a collection of luxurious sex toys specially designed by Lovehoney with your ultimate sexual happiness in mind.

This model is whisper-quiet and wirelessly controlled, offering the discretion you need even on the strongest tier of sensation.

You can safely relax into bliss as your lover flicks through the settings from up to 8 meters away.

However, this powerful toy’s 8 speeds and 12 patterns may make it difficult to maintain your composure.

Secrets 5 Function Remote Control Vibrating Panties – $54.99

Secrets 5 Function Remote Control Vibrating Panties

You can take this lacy lingerie, enhanced by a remote-controlled bullet vibrator in the crotch to bed with your partner or take it out for a walk with you.

It is supper-discreet and quiet enough to be worn at dinner where you can hand the remote control to your partner and allow them to take charge of the 5 powerful vibration modes that you will not be able to forget.

Unlike other vibrating panties, the removable vibrator is curved to fit your body and provide maximum contact and comfort.

There is a hidden pocket in the crotch lining of the lacy panties that will ensure focused stimulation at all times.

OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Panty Vibe – Wearable Remote Vibrator – $119

OhMiBod Club Vibe 3.OH Panty Vibe - Wearable Remote Vibrator;

The Club Vibe 3. OH is a small, discreet vibrator that is designed to be worn in a pair of panties. It also comes with a pair of black lace panties that have a small, customed pouch for the device built-in.

It can be controlled with a wireless remote control that offers three modes:

  • Pulse mode that works whenever and for as long as you press the button.
  • Pattern mode that vibrates in present patterns.
  • Music mode that listens to and responds to the ambient noise  (talk about taking date night or clubbing to a whole new level).

It is lightweight and surprisingly quiet when vibrating.

Screaming O My Secret Charged Remote Control Panty Vibe – $59.95

Screaming O My Secret Charged Remote Control Panty Vibe

My Secret Charged Panty Vibe is a great way to play in public with a compact mini vibe that fits comfortably in a matching lace panty with a custom pouch.

It is made of ABS plastic and body-safe silicone. It delivers deep, rumbling vibration through a remote control cleverly disguised as a finger ring and controlled by a button battery.

The panties are made from nylon and spandex for a soft feel and are completely adjustable with tie sides to ensure you get the right fit.

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Q: Are Sex Toys Comfortable To Wear All Day?

Too much of a good thing may not be so good after all, and if your toy stays on or inside you for an entire day, you may experience unwanted soreness and even bruising.

Even small and discreet sex toys may take a bit of getting used to.

However, don’t get carried away and forget that they are there.

The beauty of jeweled, miniature, and hidden sex toys is that you can take them out whenever you’ve had enough and wrap them up until it’s cleaning time.

If you are at work and your toy starts to feel uncomfortable, you can always take it off and leave it inside your bag or pocket until you get home and play with it again.

Q: Are There Any Discreet Sex Toys For Men?

While using a sex toy in public is much easier for a woman, YES, discreet sex toys for men are also available. You can see my favorites here.

Q: Can You Get In Trouble For Wearing A Sex Toy In Public?

Only if you get caught. While I would recommend you try this out, I would also advise you to be cautious and practice common public decency.