How To Make Money Sexting & Flirting Online

Looking to make some extra quick money online?

Sexting is definitely something you should consider and yes, I am serious.

Thanks to the internet, the sexting game has now become a worldwide marketplace where anyone with a phone or a computer can make money simply by sexting for a few hours a day (and people are making stupid money this way).

Thus, I wanted to create this guide for you that will teach you how to make money with sexting (and flirting) with strangers online.

Unlike being a camgirl or offering traditional phone sex services, sexting is not only relatively mild, but it is also one of the easiest ways to make money online without having to strip your clothes or even show your face.

Instead, you get paid to text dirty with other people and still make a decent amount of pocket change.

First I will share a quick step-by-step overview of how to start sexting for money, then I will also dive into a few things you need to know about the business – including how to stay safe – further down below.

(You will find a table of contents you can use to jump to your desired section).


Step 01: Think and plan for your desired working hours.

Step 02: Understand what the job requires of you (more on this later).

Step 03: Join one of the many “sexting websites” that pay you to sext (see below).

Step 04: Start sexting (you will get paid either by the hour or per message).

Step 05: Get paid (different companies pay in different ways).

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The 5 Benefits of Making Money With Sexting

Sexting is one of the easiest online jobs you can do to earn some extra income. Here are five benefits of making money with sexting:

It’s easy money

It’s super easy and it costs you nothing to set up an account with a few phone texting companies or search for potential clients online.

While companies take a cut from your earnings, they provide you with a client base and give you everything you need to easily make money while doing nothing more than what you usually do daily – texting with people.

You set your own hours

Whether you want to go online in the evenings while everyone in the house is asleep or in the morning while everyone is at work and the kids are at school, you can literally text with clients and earn money at any time of the day you want.

While there are some peak hours you should aim for, this isn’t that relevant as there are people in the world that can go online for a quick sexting session at any time of the day.

You work from the comfort of your own home

The only thing you need to successfully sext with people and get paid for it is a phone, so you can decide to work from the comfort of your own home or while having a drink at the bar.

It is entirely up to you.

You don’t have to show your face

Sexting entails chatting with people and discovering their sexualities, turn-ons, turn-offs, etc. Most of it consists of exploring someone’s sexual fantasy via text messages, therefore, nobody requires you to show your true face.

While some clients may offer to pay more or ask for a photo of you, it is entirely up to you whether you want to share this with them. However, you really don’t have to if you don’t want to.

You don’t have to strip your clothes and perform!

Unlike camming and other businesses that require selling adult content for money, sexting doesn’t require you to shed your clothes and perform in front of an audience for tips.

You can send a hot nude if that’s what you want, but again, you really don’t have to if you don’t want to. You could be sitting comfortably in your pajamas and earning that extra side buck.

Can You Really Make Money Sexting?

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Yes! You can make money sexting in the following two ways:

Going independent on free chat apps

If you decide to go independent, you can use free chat apps like Kik, Pure, TexPlus, AntiLand, WhatsApp, etc, however, this puts all the responsibility on you.

You need to hustle hard to find people who might have an interest in paying for hot chat and you can do this by searching through social media websites, dating apps, etc.

It goes without saying that there is no guarantee that some of those guys have an interest in that matter and scammy business is also a risk you need to be willing to take while shooting your shot.

Some people may just do the dirty talk and you will never hear from them again, therefore, you need to be smart about it and take payments upfront per set time.

For example, you can advertise your sexting services on various social media platforms and come up with a price list that indicates the price per minute as well as the minimum minutes you offer.

You also need to be smart and never give out any private information about yourself like your real name, location, address, number, bank account, etc.

This makes you vulnerable and you really want to avoid potential stalkers and other uncomfortable situations.

Working for a Sext Flirt company

This isn’t something new and I remember a time where sexy hotlines were super-popular back in the day of Nokia 3310 where you would go on a website, select a model you like (which weren’t even the real pictures) and they charge you per each message you send.

However, these days everything is much more sophisticated and working as an employee for some of these companies gives you more freedom to focus on the creative aspects of your dirty texting business.

The company handles everything including the advertising and while they take a hefty percentage from your earnings due to this, they also find the people for you. You will probably have regulars that will keep coming back for a piece of your dirty mind.

Additionally, some of these companies will give you the opportunity to enroll in their free training courses that will teach you the basics of sexting, how to keep your clients online for longer, how to make the most money out of your sexting sessions, etc.

Moreover, they provide you with safety and peace of mind because you will not have to give out your personal number to connect with a client as this typically happens through their own texting platforms.

However, there is one problem when it comes to being an employee and that is competing sexters. Therefore, you need to learn how to market yourself in a way that will make you stand out from the rest of the pack.

This means that you have to be quick to respond, leave a positive impression, and know how to give your paying clients exactly what they want. Otherwise, you are risking being cut off by that client and why should someone else take your money?

How Much Money Can You Make Texting With Strangers?

A lot! There are people that are making thousands a year with this simple side hustle. Each text you send through a website could generate anywhere between $0.01 up to $3 per minute or per text.

Some independent sexters even charge between $20-$30 per hour, which is a good amount of money when you consider that the average construction worker in America is earning $16-$18 an hour for doing one of the most difficult jobs on the planet.

But, no rush. Even if you’re not making a lot of money in the beginning, make sure to still be smart about it and try to come up with more creative ideas on how to make more money instead of discouraging yourself thinking this job just isn’t for you.

Anyone can make this happen and people that don’t even speak proper English can milk $2 per text out of someone if they have the willingness to do it.

Additionally, most of these sexting companies let you set your own rates to wherever you see fit, so only the sky is the limit on that one.

And who knows, maybe you won’t even have to do sexting at all!

Besides the sexting aspect, a lot of clients choose this because they are lonely and feel unwanted. Most clients are just super shy guys that are after a little bit of attention by someone they enjoy talking to.

My point is, you don’t have to be a pro-sexter or some sort of nymphomaniac to be able to make money sexting. All you have to do is have a good handle on your grammar, a steady internet connection, and a little bit of an open mind.

What You Need To Know About Sexting For Cash

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Sure enough, making money simply by sexting does sound like an amazing opportunity, but of course; you have to be responsible and keep a few things in mind while at it. For example;

Never Use A Real Name:

Pick a name that is not anyway related or similar to your real one. Failure to do would make it super easy for someone with a little bit of tech knowledge to find you in real life, and I am sure you do not want that to happen.

Never Use Your Phone Number:

For the same reasons as I just described but worse; using your “real” phone number will be even easier to find your home address if anyone wanted to.

Never Give Out Personal Details:

While sexting with customers, some may ask you to share personal details in a bid to bait you to meet up with them. This is not allowed by Arousr and of course; it’s never a good idea to over-share on the internet.

You Earn As Much As You Work:

One thing you also have to keep in mind as well is that you earn as much as you put into this.

While the money is good, it requires you to “show up” and dedicate a few hours a day (at least to make a decent income with this).

You Have To Be 21+ (In Some Cases):

Most sex-chatting sites need you to be at least 18 years of age. You may even come across sites that require you to be 21, or some even 24.

If you are underage, do not try to “game the system”. It’s not safe for you and these companies take the age requirements very seriously (as they should).

10 Legit Websites That’ll Pay You To Sext

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Here are ten legit websites that you can register with and start earning money while sexting, today:


Phrendly is one of the most reputable companies you can sign up with and flirt with the most vibrant clientele. They market themselves as a dating app, however, they offer payments for sending out hot texts to strangers.

They are super professional about your privacy and personal information; ensuring you will have a friendly and safe experience as long as you stay on their platform.

On Phriendly, when you get someone to “share a drink” it comes with real monetary value so you benefit when your Phriendly date is generous.

Talk To Me

TalkToMe is a platform where you can register as a Talker and spend several hours a day talking to people via text messages, phone calls, Skype cams, and more.

Upon creating your profile, you can list the services you are comfortable with offering and start earning money, immediately. They offer safe, secure, and private connections and your personal information is rest assured being kept private.

Additionally, they offer convenient payment options including checks, direct deposit, and prepaid debit cards.


SextPanther is a high-end platform that offers phone calls and mobile fantasy sexting services.

They offer a payout percentage that ranges between 55%-65% after generating a minimum of $20, which is a little low, however, phone calls and sexting aren’t the only services you can offer.

On SextPanther, you can also sell panties, tangible goods, Skype sessions, accept tips/tributes, and even post your Amazon wishlist link that will allow your regular clients to spoil you with gifts.

  • 55% – 65% for texts and pictures
  • 75% – 82.5% for phone calls
  • 80% – 88% for tips

Payments are made twice per month once the minimum payout of $20 is met. Payments are made via check or direct deposit and SextPanther covers all chargebacks.

Text 121 Chat

Text121Chat is a rather popular website and a huge phone sex provider in the US. They provide a wide array of options including non-explicit texts and video services for users who prefer something more genuine and “mild”.

It’s like giving regular, everyday women a chance to get paid to flirt using their mobiles in flexible working hours.

However, the website provides a workshop to make sure you’re up to their standards before you sign up.

Chat Recruit

Chat Recruit is another popular online chat service that allows you to chat with clients through a phone call or text messaging. Apart from this, the platform also offers webcam chats for those who are comfortable with video chats.

Here, you can pick your working hours and work as much as you want. The company pays its participants $2 per minute through direct deposits and bank transfers every time they are chatting.

Dream Lover

Dream Lover is a super-popular chatting website that pays people to chat and flirt. You can even find some prominent porn star names here including Kendra Sunderland, Bridgette B, Diamond Jackson, and Nikki Benz.

However, this particular platform focuses on women as models and encourages people to share their photos through their text messaging service.

This doesn’t mean that you have to share your photos and you may very well chat with clients without doing so as you are the only person that’s in control of everything.


LipService is a marketplace that links chat agencies to qualified chatters. It is the place for you if you are bilingual, multilingual, or unable to speak English very well.

LipService accepts workers of other languages since they cater to a wide array of people and the only signup requirement is that you are 18 years old or older.


FlirtBucks is another super popular flirt chat system that offers pretty vanilla subjects as a matter of interest. The only signup requirements are that you are 18 or older and have good typing skills.

Additionally, to gain more clients and earn more money, you should definitely be able to hold a good conversation and be free to talk about anything that doesn’t include the “hardcore” stuff.

The company pays out via PayPal and the typical price is $0.15 per text. Another great thing about this platform is that you can choose who you want to chat with as a texture.


NiteFlirt is a phone sex company that has been around the corner for quite some time. The website looks a little outdated, however, it has a huge advantage in the sense of having good traffic, straight-to-the-point policies, and doesn’t have any crazy sign-up requirements.

They also pay well.

On NiteFlirt you can chat with your clients via a phone call, paid mail, as well as receive tributes.

The only drawback is that they pay your earnings via direct deposit or a paper check only, which will be sent to you via post.

Unfortunately, they don’t offer wire transfers, however, if you don’t have a US bank account, you can always request to be paid out via monthly check.


Arousr is surely the most popular adult chat website that provides you with many ways to make money. Here, you can make money through text sessions, video chatting, and even upload photos and videos that you can sell to members.

Once you sign up, the first ten messages of each chat are free, however, after the initial “trial time”, you can switch the chat to a premium mode and charge clients in order to continue talking to them.

Lastly, you can even make money by receiving tips on here, however, you have to be on the platform for long enough to have acquired a fan base that’s going to be generous and give you tips.

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