If you think you might be interested in trying something a little less conventional, allow me to introduce you to bed restraints.
Bed restraints can be a fun way to explore the power dynamics within your relationship and experience new and sensual pleasures.
Bed restraints are very easy to install, use, and store, and are usually affordable, too. This is, in my opinion, one of the best BDSM options for a beginner who just wants to try something new.
So, here are my recommendations for the best sex bed restraints.
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Sportsheets – Beginner’s Bondage Fantasy Kit – $18
The Beginner’s Bondage Fantasy Kit by Sportsheets is an affordable kit that consists of four 44-inch straps, four Velcro closure cuffs, and one soft blindfold.
The adjustable straps can be easily attached to a bedpost, bed frame, or any other sturdy attachment point.
The four adjustable cuffs are attached to these straps and fit around wrists, ankles, and other body parts to safely and comfortably restrain a partner.
The soft and padded materials are far from intimidating, making them a great choice for introducing a newcomer who might find whips and chains a little too intense.
Lastly, the blindfold helps you take it a step further and encourage the strapped partner to relax and enjoy their other senses.
Sportsheets – Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage Under the Bed Restraint Kit – $23
The Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage restraint kit from Sportsheets is slightly more elaborate but still an affordable and beginner-friendly option.
This kit includes four cuffs with attached adjustable straps and a connector strap that prevents the other two from working loose from under the mattress. The cuffs and straps are strongly attached, so no amount of tugging or pulling will yank them loose.
Additionally, the Velcro closures make the straps look slightly less intimidating, while the padding makes the cuffs appealing to beginners and seasoned BDSM fans alike.
Pink Daemon Store – High-Quality Bed Restraint Kit – $25
The Bed Restraint Kit by Pink Daemon Store on Etsy is a simple and affordable kit that consists of four fully adjustable straps and four Velcro closure cuffs for easy handling.
The adjustable straps are designed to go under the mattress and maintain full control of the strapped partner.
The four adjustable cuffs are attached to these straps and fit around wrists, ankles, and other body parts to safely and comfortably restrain a partner.
Lastly, the kit comes in two different color options, including black and red.
Sportsheets – Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit – $28
The Sex & Mischief Bed Bondage Restraint Kit is a simple and affordable kit with a straightforward design without complicated bells and whistles.
The long strap goes underneath your mattress, and the four limb straps come out and up either on the sides or top of the bed, depending on your preference.
The straps are adjustable, so the system can fit any size mattress and adapt to different levels of desired tension.
A unique feature of this set is that the faux-fur-lined velcro cuffs are permanently attached to the straps. That means that you don’t have to worry about heavy metal clips or your cuffs getting separated and lost.
Lovehoney – Bed of Roses Beginners Under Bed Restraint Set – $40
The Bed of Roses Beginners Restraint Set is a beautiful and convenient bondage set that creates full arm and leg restraint while still being made from comfortable, beginner-friendly materials.
The kit contains padded wrist and ankle cuffs that adjust easily between 6.5 to 10 inches and are secured via strong Velcro fastenings for easy removal, if necessary.
Additionally, the side-release clips attach each cuff to the main bed straps for simplicity and safety.
Unlike many under-bed restraints, this set is suitable for one-person setup thanks to its two-loop design. Rather than lifting your entire mattress to install your restraint, you can lift one end at a time, slide each strap underneath, and then fiddle around with the adjusters for the perfect fit.
The main mattress straps can be adjusted between 61 to 192 inches in circumference and fit almost any bed up to king-size. The connecting cuff straps can be adjusted up to 28 inches to work with different mattress depths and heights.
Sportsheets – Under The Bed Restraint System – $46
Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System is a simple and decently-priced set that includes four adjustable cuffs of up to 12-inch wrists and four restraint straps secured to one connector strap that fits under your mattress and holds the strapped partner firmly in place.
The set is easy to set up and can be used to restrain the submissive partner’s arms and legs from the sides or the bottom of the bed.
The kit is also portable and great for a surprise getaway.
Lovehoney – Fifty Shades of Grey Keep Still Over the Bed Cross Restraint – $70
A collaboration between the 50 Shades franchise and Lovehoney sex toys, the Keep Still Restraint Kit does things a little differently.
It buckles around the top and bottom of your bed as though your mattress is wearing two belts, but the restraint straps create a big hourglass shape on top of your mattress and provide eight different tie-down points to choose from.
This gives you the ability to choose whether you want to keep the legs and arms together or spread apart. You can also switch it up to keep things fresh too.
The securing straps are adjustable to fit beds full-size and larger, but you can’t tighten the straps that hold the cuffs to restrict their movement even more once they’re clipped in.
It comes with faux-fur-lined Velcro-closure wrist and ankle cuffs which are a great choice for beginners. Velcro gives you a lot of adjustability and is quick to put on and take off.
The set also contains a matching blindfold and doorknob sign that says, “Mr. Grey will see you now.”
Lovehoney – Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit – $75
If aesthetics matter to you, you should definitely look into the Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit. This is a nice set for people looking to do bondage photoshoots. The faux leather is a metallic pink with rose-gold toned hardware, so your bondage is not only fun but beautiful.
The bondage kit includes under the mattress restraints, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, a blindfold, a ball gag, and a flogger.
The stick-figure-shaped restraint straps sit underneath the mattress and extend out either on the side or top. There’s an easy-squeeze lobster clip on the end of each strap and a buckle to adjust the length of the strap.
The faux-fur-lined cuffs have quick-release Velcro closures, and the blindfold and gag have buckle closures. The ball on the gag is made of silicone which is great because it’s easier to keep clean and won’t have a smell or taste of rubber.
The flogger has a solid handle with a strap and lots of soft faux leather falls that can be used gently for sensation play or provide a nice sting with more power behind the swing.
The kit is excellent for beginners because you’re getting a whole bag full of equipment at once for a reasonable price.
Lovehoney – Dominix Deluxe Leather Cuff Set – $75
The Dominix Deluxe Under Mattress Set is a great combination for people who are looking for both ease of use and quality.
The kit includes real leather wrist and ankle cuffs with buckle closures that are well-made and feel luxurious. Each cuff has a metal D-ring, and an included mini carabineer to clip onto your restraints.
The restraint system comes in two parts that secure around the top and bottom of your bed, making it way easier for one person to do since you don’t have to lift the whole mattresses to do it.
The straps are adjustable to fit any bed larger than a twin, and it secures with a seat-belt buckle, so once you get the size right the first time, it will be pre-adjusted the next time you go to put it on.
But the best thing about the kit is that there are eight tie-down points, two in each corner, which gives you a wider variety of positions to play with and is more accommodating for people who might not feel comfortable in a standard spread-eagle position.
Lovehoney – Scandal Under Mattress Bed Restraint Kit – $80
If you are into something slightly more intense, you should look into the Scandal Bed Restraint Kit.
The kit contains an under-mattress restraint system, a blindfold for sensory deprivation, and a breathable ball gag for those hot muffling moans.
The cross-style restraint system slips easily under the mattress, leaving nothing but four cuffs poking out of each corner to hold the strapped partner firmly in place. The straps are adjustable and fit any bed up to king-size.
Additionally, the Velcro cuffs adjust up to 14.5 inches around, and the gag up to 25 inches around, making this set great for subs of all (shapes and) sizes.
And if you aren’t sure what to do while your partner is tied up and waiting, consider picking up a feather tickler, nipple suckers, or even a Hitachi wand and get those orgasms flowing.
