20 Lubes for Vaginal & Anal Fisting (For The Most Extreme)

Fisting someone is one of the most extreme sex acts out there, but it’s also one of the most sensual and electrifying experiences you’ll ever have in the bedroom.

Seriously, very few things top fisting, and it’s definitely understandable why so many people who want to try it are actually hesitant because of the fear that something can go wrong at any time.

So, when thinking fisting, one of the main requirements is plenty of lubing up your bits to avoid uncomfortable sensations and any potential tearing.

Furthermore, you also have to make sure that fisting is something you only do with a partner that you trust since a lot of communication and patience are needed before you actually get on with it.

And while I can’t help you with the latter, I can definitely do so with the prior, which is to provide you with a list of the 20 best lubes for vaginal & anal fisting that will make your experience more comfortable and enjoyable.

Lovehoney – Discover Water-Based Lubricant – $10

Lovehoney’s Discover Water-Based Lubricant is an extra thick, stringy, and colorless anal lubricant that provides a long-lasting slip for an enhanced glide during backdoor play.

And even though this is primarily a lube intended for anal play, what I like about these is that they tend to provide much longer lubrication and can also be used for fisting, which more often than not takes some time to get used to, especially if you are a beginner.

Delight is also silicone-free, which makes it compatible with all sex toy materials.

Sliquid – Silk Lubricant – $14

Thick, silky, and oil-free, Silk Lubricant aims to help things slip in and out a bit easier while adding to the aesthetic with its white, creamy consistency that makes it look like real cum.

A hybrid of water and silicone, the product mostly acts like a water-based lube with a touch of silky sleekness. It also has a pleasant yet mild citrusy smell as a nice cherry on top.

Lube Life – Water-Based Anal Lubricant – $15

Lube Life’s Water-Based Anal Lubricant has a water-based formula but with a slightly thicker, gel-like consistency that offers a silky smooth feel on the skin and a buttery glide during fisting.

It is also free from potential irritants such as parabens, glycerin, and oil, and it also doesn’t contain any fragrance or fragrant components, making it ultra-safe even for those with sensitive skin.

System JO – H2O Warming Lubricant – $15

System JO’s H2O Warming Lubricant is a fantastic lubricant that has a silky smooth glide and isn’t annoyingly sticky or tacky.

But its best feature is that it warms up once rubbed on the skin and helps relax the muscles, making fisting more enjoyable and less uncomfortable.

It’s also paraben, glycerin, and glycol-free, so it is very suitable for those who have sensitive or easily irritated skin.

System JO’s lubricants also last longer than some other water-based lubricants, and you won’t have to use a lot of product to achieve the desired glide.

Slippery Stuff – Personal Gel Lubricant – $17

Slippery Stuff is a personal, water-based lubricant that aims to provide a long-lasting slip during fisting play.

Silky smooth and free of potentially irritating fragrance and sensitizing parabens, this colorless gel-like lubricant is safe to be used internally and safe for those with sensitive skin.

Lovehoney – Delight Silk Lubricant – $17

Lovehoney’s Delight Silk Lubricant is a water-based, vegan-friendly lube that comes in a mess-free pump bottle and is safe for use with all sorts of toys and even condoms.

Silky smooth and with a texture that resembles cum, the Delight Silk Lubricant can be used to spice up your solo game or add an extra slip and drip during a bedroom session with your partner.

Doc Johnson – TitanMen Triple Duty Fisting Cream – $20

Another solid pick for vaginal and anal fisting alike and safe for use with condoms and all sex toy materials, the TitanMen Triple Duty Fisting Cream is a hybrid lubricant largely water-based, with an added creamy slip that starts becoming more apparent once you warm it up between the hands.

This unique texture makes it work amazingly for smoothing out the starting part of your fisting. And after a while, it’s nice and silky.

System JO – Hybrid Warming Lubricant – $22

Another excellent option by System JO is the Hybrid Warming Lubricant that has a silky smooth glide and warms up once rubbed on the skin to help relax the muscles and make fisting more enjoyable.

It’s also paraben, glycerin, and oil-free, so it is very suitable for those who have sensitive or easily irritated skin.

However, since it contains the tiniest bit of silicone for an added slip, it’s best to avoid using it with silicone sex toys or latex condoms.

An added aroma of coconut also makes this lube edible and tasty.

Cleanstream – Desensitizing Lube – $22

Cleanstream Desensitizing Lube is a water-based lube with a gel-like consistency that aims to provide an excellent slip during playtime.

However, what makes this lube especially suitable for a fisting play is that it contains a small concentration of lidocaine, an ingredient that prevents pain by blocking the nerve signals at the nerve endings in the skin.

This will make fisting less painful and more comfortable; however, always be extra careful when using numbing or desensitizing products, as damage like tearing can still be done, and you will feel the pain after the effect of the numbing ingredient wears off.

So, even though lidocaine may help ease some of the discomfort of fisting, make sure to always take things easy and prepare for this type of play accordingly.

AH! YES – Organic Plant Oil-Based Lubricant – $22

Made out of natural oils and butters like shea, organic beeswax, sunflower oil, and sweet almond oil, the AH! YES Oil-Based Lubricant has an unmatched nourishing and moisturizing effect on the skin.

Greasy, slippery, and long-lasting, this lubricant will provide you with a long play while helping warm up and relax your muscles, making fisting more enjoyable and less uncomfortable.

However, even though this product is all-natural and safe for sensitive skin, it’s definitely not compatible with latex condoms and silicone-made sex toys as it can degrade the material and lead to bacteria buildup.

Elbow Grease – Original Cream – $27

Elbow Grease is a mineral oil-based lubricant that’s incredibly slippery and long-lasting. Since the texture is so greasy, you also won’t need to use a lot of product to achieve the desired effect.

Additionally, the cream also contains menthol, which gives you a warming sensation that helps the muscles relax during fisting and provides a more comfortable experience.

However, due to the ultra-oily consistency, the lube can be quite difficult to wash off, so make sure to prepare clothes or old sheets that you don’t mind ruining before using the Elbow Grease as a lube.

Master Series – Invade Deep Fisting Cream – $30

Master Series Invade Deep Fisting Cream is perfect for those who like to make things bigger and rougher. The numbing effect of 5% benzocaine will make any penetrations smooth and less painful.

The hybrid cream is primarily water-based, with an added blend of oil and silicone, giving it a thick cream consistency that’s easy to apply and easy to clean up.

However, since oil and silicone can potentially degrade materials such as latex, it’s best to avoid using the cream with condoms or other sex toys made of silicone, plastic, etc.

Übersilk – Personal Lubricant for Fisting and Anal Sex – $30

The Übersilk Personal Lubricant for Fisting and Anal Sex is a water-based lubricant specially designed for fisting and anal sex.

Containing naturally relaxing ingredients like essential oils, the lube will help relax your muscles and prepare you for any type of intense play.

The gel-like texture glides on the skin with ease and provides long-lasting lubrication once sufficiently warmed up, remaining wet throughout the entirety of the playtime with a minimum amount of product applied.

Fragrance-free product and safe for sensitive skin, the lube also doesn’t contain artificial colorants, parabens, or anything that could trigger an allergic reaction and ruin your experience.

Sliquid – Natural Gel Lubricant – $30

Blended with vegan-friendly, botanical extracts like aloe, green tea, and sunflower, Sliquid’s Natural Gel Lubricant is safe for sensitive and allergy-prone skin and the best choice for those who want to take the natural route.

With a consistency that’s a little thicker than non-gel lubricants, the lube is an excellent choice for anal and fisting play too.

Long-lasting, silky smooth, and pleasant against the skin, the Natural Gel Lubricant is a great option for fisting beginners and advanced players alike.

Tom of Finland – Desensitizing Cream – $32

Very popular in the gay community, the Tom of Finland Fisting Cream will instantly relax your cavity with its slightly numbing effect and help reduce any discomfort while being penetrated.

With a primarily oil-based consistency, providing only the ultimate kind of slickness is this product’s main goal, making it an excellent option for both beginners and experienced users.

Also, this fisting lubricant works well with any toys, regardless of the material; however, it’s not compatible with latex materials, so if condoms are involved, they should be non-latex.

Boy Butter – Personal Lubricant – $35

Safe for both males and females, Boy Butter is a washable, non-toxic, and edible lubricant.

It makes everything glide smoothly as if sliding down on some warm butter, making it suitable for fisting and anal sex. Its formulas are mostly plant-based, considering its main ingredient is coconut oil, which makes the butter last a long time and keeps up with any silicone formulas.

Furthermore, Boy Butter doesn’t stain, it’s easy to wash off, and its lightweight texture makes it excellent for preventing friction without giving you the feel of grease all over your skin.

Foria – Intimacy Sex Oil with CBD – $37

Foria’s Intimacy Natural Lubricant with CBD is a fragrance-free, coconut-oil-based lubricant made with only organic ingredients.

It’s also vegan, gluten-free, and safe to ingest, and the company reports that its users have found relief from the pain of vaginismus and other conditions that can make intercourse painful and anxiety-inducing.

Silky smooth and super-lubricating, this CBD oil lube is definitely going to help you relax and enjoy the fist game even more.

Privy Peach – CBD Intimate Oil – $45

Privy Peach’s CBD Oil aims to help you chill out, relax, and enjoy the playtime, but it also promises to help stimulate your body’s own lubrication while increasing circulation to your lady parts.

It starts off as semi-solid, which is dosed out into 10 perfectly sized, single-use servings, but melts into a satisfying oil when it comes in contact with the heat from your skin.

CBD Intimate Oil also contains only a few ingredients, including ultra-filtered virgin coconut oil with nano-emulsified broad-spectrum CBD, an anti-inflammatory combination that helps moisturize the skin and deliver an unforgettable sensation.

Shots – Anal Relaxer – $53

Water-based and long-lasting, the Shots Anal Relaxer is made with a unique blend of numbing and desensitizing astringents that make any type of more intense play like fisting or anal more pleasurable and comfortable.

Suitable for all sex toy materials, as well as latex condoms, the product has a slippery, gel-like consistency that warms up the skin to provide a unique experience for beginners and advanced players alike.

With a European stamp of approval and a jar that will last you a lifetime, this one is a rather pricey but well-worth product.

EROS – Fisting Gel UltraX – $55

The EROS Fisting Gel UltraX is a hybrid lube made out of water and silicone and an addition of numbing and desensitizing ingredients that aim to provide comfort during fisting and make penetration easier and safer.

Free of oil, grease, and irritating fragrance, the silky smooth formula provides a long-lasting glide that won’t dry out on you while you’re elbows deep in the game.

However, although safe for insertion, the gel contains traces of silicone; therefore, using it with silicone sex toys and latex condoms is definitely not a great idea.

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