How To Be Relaxed & Confident About Being a Sex Worker

I very often freak out.

What if my parents find me online, my sister seeing one of my nudes, or my friends accidentally bump into my Twitter account?

Of course, they will recognize me, despite the fact that I have a show name. But my face and the place I live are definitely me!

So yes, despite the easy money I am making, it is not all that great. The possibility of someone finding me online is always in the back of my mind.

But I enjoy it too much to let go of it yet… I am ready to push it a bit further and see if I can make a proper career out of this.

I am trying to be as protective and vigilant as possible and make sure that I stay in a certain geological zone and that I don’t talk about my job too much with strangers.

I have confided in a few good friends, just because I need to be able to talk to someone about it. But other than that, it is one big secret.

So how do I keep it fun and how do I keep the feeling that what I am doing is right, that I am on the right track?

Of course, with a very open mind, staying very down to earth and not taking anything seriously in this job at all… or in life in general.

It’s ‘The Oldest Profession In The World”

How strange is it, that still nowadays sex work is something you’d rather keep quiet?

I am wondering if modern society will ever be able to accept this job as normal, as a serious career, or even something to look up to.

We are talking about one of the oldest professions in the world; prostitution.

According to Google, it is:

“the practice of engaging in relatively indiscriminate sexual activity, in general with someone who is not a spouse or a friend, in exchange for immediate payment in money or other valuables”.

Now that is a mouth full and of course, nowadays this comes in so many forms.

Social Media has made it so easy for everyone to prostitute and with platforms like OnlyFans you can make a fortune without even touching a man’s cock.

So why is it still such a taboo?

Why can’t I just tell my parents or my friends?

I can’t put my finger on it, but it might have something to do with religion and the fact we were taught and raised to only keep your body, your virginity, and your pussy for the one true man in your life.

I am hopeful though. Even reading a lot on Twitter about sex workers being discriminated against, rudely treated, or even abused I do find most men I speak too extremely respectful, kind, and open-minded about the work I do.

We might just need a few more decades to get sex workers more accepted.

In the meantime, I am enjoying the work plus the fieldwork I am conducting in my private life as well!

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Humor

So, to keep it fun and to stay down to earth bring some humor to the table.

Laugh about the whole situation you are in as a sex worker.

Most of my posts on Twitter contain some kind of joke, mostly about my pussy or boobs that are trying to reach as many viewers as possible.

I just think one should not take this job too seriously. If you do, you might get offended easily, you might find people rude and then, of course, the joy of this job will be gone completely.

In general, take everything with a pinch of salt. I receive messages from Twitter followers or clients on my online chat that start with

“I want to eat your pussy”.

Now you can interpret that as rude, but you can also reply with “Thanks babe, enjoy it” or “Happy to hear”. Just keep it down to earth.

There Is a Look For Every Man

And of course, some days you are really not into this work.

You don’t feel great, you are tired or have a hangover from last night’s party.

You are just not in the mood to put make-up on and get your pussy wet. And then you might not feel as confident as you normally are.

I always keep in mind that there is a look for every man.

Some guys like the innocent schoolgirl, some like a hot blonde with small nipples, others like oversized women with big boobs.

So yes, keep up the good work, because you will find fans and you will have men (or even women) that really enjoy your work and love your look! And most importantly they will pay you for it or reward you in any other way.

Find Friends on Twitter

So, to feel you are loved, accepted, to know you are on the right track, and to even exchange ideas and tips go and find yourself some friends on Twitter or any other platform for that matter.

It is really great to chat with like-minded people, share about what you experience, and ask for help if you need it.

There are some really nice girls and women out there who love to compliment your tits, retweet your posts and chat.

I have had a lot of girls giving me advice or contacting me. As also mentioned in my blog “How to Grow a Following on Twitter“, the plan is to make as many girlfriends on Twitter and try to befriend other girls so you tap into their crowd.

But besides that, it is also nice to read any other tweets from sex workers that are fun, contain some self-mockery and that will keep you motivated. So, follow as many as possible and try to learn from them.

I have also found some interesting accounts with lots of followers I am trying to collaborate with. They retweet my posts, give me some compliments and I thank them with some sexy talk and free nudes.

So girl, keep up the good work, there are thousands of men out there that are secretly thanking you for your work! Even on your off day!